Hi, I am Xiaoli Mei!
I am a Dating/Relationship coach, and a matchmaker, offering a unique and modern version of “happily ever after” solution for smart, ambitious, professional women who spent their life achieving success in their career, yet experience stress and an overwhelmingly empty feeling of missing out on a loving relationship. As an ambitious professional woman, you’ve probably discovered that a successful career does not guarantee a happy relationship. A loving & fulfilling relationship is a necessary component to achieving full happiness in life. Being loved and adored, while also giving love, can fill that void. But achieving success in finding love takes knowledge and understanding.
We were never taught by school or by our parents about the intricacies of love and relationships. We always assumed “happily ever after” came naturally as long as we fell in love and got married. But we never fully understood what falling in love really meant. Understanding human nature and the actions necessary to achieve success in relationships are learn-able skills. But it takes conscious learning and action.
It hurts me to see many of you give up after experiencing broken hearts, knowing that love and happiness are within reach. Rest assured that my success formula will bring hope and light to you if you are still in the dark or if you are seeking guidance.
It’s my passion to support you on this journey to have the life of your dream.
What you will get from our Clarity Call:
What my clients say about me
I came from a very traditional and orthodox family. Arranged marriages were still very much the norm. However, I always felt that something was missing – I wanted more than the normal description of an arranged marriage. When I moved here, I decided to begin dating. Online dating felt too artificial, onerous and risky. I didn’t know how to do this. When I started coaching with you, for the first time, I felt hopeful. Dating was an exciting journey and not a burdensome prerequisite to finding the love of my life. You helped me change my perspective on that. More than that, with you, I stumbled upon core beliefs and attitudes holding me back that I never knew I had! I understood, for the first time, what I was really looking for. 6 months later, I see how my relationships around me have improved. The greatest gift I received was that I became a better version of myself.Thank you Xiaoli- I hope you continue to impact lives as you did mine.
I had been out of dating scene more than 15 years. After divorced and being single for many years, I wasn’t sure how to get back on dating. But I truly desire to find a partner to share the rest of life with. I am so glad that I took the courage to join Xiaoli’s coaching program. It made my online dating experience so much easier and smooth just by following Xiaoli‘s guidance step by step. I tried online dating before, but it was a terrible experience only attracted wrong guys and never actually had 2nd dates. This time the quality of my dating pool is much better. Xiaoli helped me on my profile writing and identified my limiting beliefs and old relationship patterns. Huge breakthrough! Now I am with this guys on 6th date. Things are going well. Through this program, not only I became more comfortable communicating with men and ask for what I want, also more confident about myself and who I am.Big gratitude to you Xiaoli and your coaching
I am a very independent woman and was always proud of that. After a few broken relationships, I didn’t think I need a man in my life. But despite the success in career, I did feel something missing and life was not complete. Xiaoli‘ s coaching changed my perspective. She helped me figure out what prevented me to find love./
I always had a bad perspective about online dating but decided to give it try with Xiaoli ‘s coaching program because not only she found her love online, also her coaching topics are very intriguing and refreshing to me. Maybe I was lucky, with Xiaoli’s guidance on profile, photos and dating skills etc., I found my boyfriend Ken in two months. I can say I happily graduated from this program.Thank you Xiaoli!