8 Clear Signs a Man is Unavailable

Here is a quite common scenario in dating: you go on a date with a guy, you find him attractive, and you can’t believe how much you have in common. He kept saying things like “on our next date, we should go________” so you end the date feeling amazing!

Then, radio silence. You never hear from him again.

If you’re like most women, you hit replay and review the date in your head in case you were seeing things that weren’t there, or what you possibly did wrong that turned him off so badly he never called again.

Stop! Believe me, it’s not you!

This is a category of guys I refer to as Mr. Available Unavailable. And I’ve witnessed this type of men blindside some of the smartest, sharpest, savviest friends and female clients again and again (including old me!).

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There are many traits this kind of man will demonstrate. Once I pointed out to you, it’s going to be much easier for you to recognize (and avoid) him. So let’s explore 8 clear signs a man is not available:
1. Flirts with you like crazy in text or email but never asks you out.
2. Has “reasons” why he’s not ready for a relationship right now.
3. Will see you during the week but then disappears all weekend.
4. Still has another woman somewhere – or lets you know he’s still getting over someone.
5. Will bond intimately with you – but then disappear – for a while or forever.
6. Never plans a date – consistently calls you spontaneously/ last minute.
7. Will see you when it’s best for him, but then he’s “too busy” when you want to see him.
8. Not sure about the future, and won’t define if you’re a couple or not (because he doesn’t like “labels”).

Action speaks louder than words. To make it easy for you, if a man is truly excited about you– every action he demonstrates backs that up!

Anything less than that, and he’s not. It’s just that simple.

So, to save yourself the heartbreak, confusion, and frustration spending your precious time with a guy who’s not committed, pay close attention not only to what a man says – but what he does!

Not sure how to stop this pattern of attracting unavailable men? Join my Love Mastery Inner Circle group on Facebook. You will learn dating/relationship wisdom to prepare you for the Mr. Right!
Much love,

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