Are you holding on to the energy of a past relationship?
Maybe it’s a story of unrequited love.
Maybe you’re angry that it didn’t work out, or confused because you were so sure that it was right.
Maybe what’s underneath the anger is the unrelenting sadness that you’re alone and you’re afraid that will never change. Whatever the reason you’re afraid to let go, it’s the reason why you aren’t calling in the love that you want and desire.
The fact of the matter is this– You can’t cheat energy.
You can’t say one thing when you’re really feeling something else and expect to attract what you want.
In other words: You can’t say you desire a loving, connected, committed relationship while at the same time continuing to spend time agonizing over a past lover and expect to call in the man and relationship of your dreams.
Your energy flows where your attention goes, so you’ve got to get your energy clear first. You may be thinking, what’s the big deal? We’re just friends.
Well, think about this…
If you’re looking for and meet an honest, respectable, monogamous man who’s interested in a long-term committed relationship, but you’re still tied up emotionally with someone else, he’ll be able to feel it. Men are incredibly perceptive to energy, and he will feel that you aren’t 100% available. If he’s a good man, he’ll leave.
Think about it. You’ve probably had that experience, too. You were interested in a guy, but for some reason you couldn’t quite understand, you felt like there was someone or something else vying for his attention.
It just doesn’t work. (Energy is everything!) Energy doesn’t lie.
Are you leaving the door open for someone that keeps coming back but you know it’s never going to last? Are you so afraid of the feeling of being alone that you have yourself convinced that you’re in a relationship that doesn’t – and maybe never did – exist?
Are you well past the mourning period of a relationship (because that part of a relationship ending is necessary) but you’re keeping yourself stuck because you’re not accepting that it’s over?
If any of this sounds familiar, I’ve got you!
These patterns are so deeply tied to your confidence, self-worth and what you think you can have and deserve, which is why it’s such an important thing to address within yourself!
Plus, this is usually happening on such a subconscious level that it requires learning how to become aware of it so you can learn how to shift it.
If you’d like to talk about how I can support you to get underneath the pattern of staying stuck and attached to something or someone that is no longer serving you, please book a call with me.
If we could do everything on our own, we would have done it already, right? And that’s where coaching comes in. Book a CLARITY CALL with me now!
Lots of love,
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