Are you holding on to the energy of a past relationship?  Maybe it’s a story of unrequited love. Maybe you’re angry that it didn’t work out, or confused because you were so sure that it was right.  Maybe what’s underneath the anger is the unrelenting sadness that you’re alone and you’re afraid that will never change.  Whatever the reason you’re afraid

There is a mantra I learned a long time ago that I repeat to myself over and over again when I’m in my darkest challenges and deepest struggles. This mantra has helped me deal with heartbreak and pain, fear and worry…and it’s one I want to share with you! Watch below to hear the words

Early 2019, I set new intention to write a book and publish it by end of the year. I delivered my book by end of October 2019. It was a great feeling to see my intention come to fruition. What about you? Are you creating what you want in your life? Are you chasing after

If you are single, how often you say “There are no good men anymore!” to yourself or to your friends?   A majority of my clients who come to me for help have this comment. But I can certainly tell you that this is not the real reason you are still single!   For every relationship

Happy Monday! Last week I talked about how to make simple mindset shift to focus on where you want to go instead of dwelling on where you are. Some ladies from my community said to me: “Xiaoli, I have been focusing on finding my life partner for 6 years now. I dated a lot. But