Why Men Don’t Call after the First Date

Does this sound familiar to you?

You go on a first date with a man. Not only does he seem very excited to meet you, he also tells you how beautiful you are, how much he likes you, and how he is serious about finding a long term relationship. Throughout the date, your chemistry feels great and the conversation flows easily. You are so excited that you finally met someone you clicked with. After the date is over, you can’t wait for the next one.

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But then, there is NO CALL from him the next day. Or the next. You keep checking your phone, maybe wondering if it’s broken. Your mind starts to rewind, reviewing the entire date and conversation, trying to figure out what must have gone wrong. Why did he say all of those things (that you were beautiful, etc.), but didn’t call again? After going over everything repeatedly, you start to feel extremely frustrated and land on one simple conclusion: all men are players and liars. Dating sucks!

Have you been there? I have.

So, why didn’t he call after your date? Believe it or not, he is often following his own intuition. He just didn’t feel the connection that you felt. He didn’t want to hurt your feelings or leave you dangling, so he went silent. But what about all the things he said? What did it all mean? It only meant that he was in the moment, just enjoying the date.

If you want to know for sure if what a man says on a date really means something, believe me, he will follow it up with action. If he is really into you, he will call and ask you out for a second date, then a third date…

Here and there, some men will call or text a few days later, but still not ask you for a second date. This usually means that they are unsure about your connection, but they don’t want to burn any bridges. So instead of vanishing, they keep you in the loop from time to time.

So, what are you supposed to do in this situation?

Don’t wait for him! Move on! You should always use your time and energy wisely, focusing your attention on the men who are truly interested in you.

I highly encourage women to try dating multiple men, before committing to any sexual intimacy. If you are putting all of your hopes on a single man, then what happens if he doesn’t call you? You might get stuck on him. So, don’t put all of your hopes on a single man! Meet lots of them. This way, you can really sort out who is the most compatible with you on many levels.

Some women may feel strange about seeing multiple men when they are getting started with dating, or worry about missing “the one” in the crowd. If you have these worries, please feel free to contact me at Happiness in Love. I will help you work through those feelings and get you ready to meet the man of your dreams!

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