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Confidence in Making the Right Relationship Choice

Over the years, I met so many amazing ladies. They are beautiful, smart, successful… and a great catch. But they are missing out on sharing the joys of their beautiful life in a relationship with someone special.

One of the biggest frustrations I hear from these ladies is that it is hard to meet quality people.

They encounter too many players, self-centered individuals, and uncommitted people. Dating
is becoming really difficult. Not to mention the time it takes to find a happy and stable relationship.

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I also encounter ladies on the other end of the spectrum. Ladies who have finally met someone who is serious and ready to take the relationship to the next level. They have met a man who is focused, direct, and sure of what they want next in their life. The directness can be intimidating and scary. These ladies come back to me to ask, “Is this too good to be true?” Are these gentlemen coming on too strong, too fast, and too desperate?

What is happening here?

One of the things I learned over years is that it is not an issue about lacking quality people in the dating environment. There are definitely plenty of good people out there, just like you. The driving reason behind this misperception is that we really don’t know exactly what we are looking for in a partner. We believe we have the list of what we are looking for. But on an emotional level, we do not know how to identify who is right for us.

Why is this?

It is because of our bad experiences in the past that made us lose confidence in ourselves. After living through one or two bad relationships, we start doubting ourselves. If only we could make the right choices, we would not experience the pain of a bad relationship. Hence, we don’t trust ourselves to make the right choice and we become afraid we might make another mistake.

Trust me. This is not a problem that is isolated to just women. Men have this issue also! When both sides fail to properly define what they want in their relationship and what they want in their partner, the result is dating chaos!

The real solution is taking the first step to restore confidence in ourselves and get back in touch with our “inner being”. This includes relearning how to love ourselves, trust our decisions, feel confident enough to trust others, and be willing to open ourselves up for others to see who we really are.

Once you regain that confidence and “inner being”, you will:

→ Trust the decisions you make
→ Show your more authentic self
→ Think more clearly and make “right” choices
→ Quickly know how to identify who is right for you
→ Begin to meet the “good ones”
→ Stop wasting valuable time on the wrong people
→ Not be scared when good things are really happening for you, and
→ Start enjoying the company of “good ones” and begin to have fun in dating

Ladies, by being your authentic self and true to your “inner being”, you will attract the right person to the real you.

Using my 3-step process called, “Sexy in Your Own Skin”, we can set you on a positive path to attract the right person that meets your needs in a lasting relationship. Don’t waste time with the wrong people! Spend more time with the right person.

Let’s set up a complimentary quick chat and let’s begin the journey to meeting the “good ones”.

PS; Want to learn more about dating & relationship wisdom? I invite you to head on over to my Facebook private group!

 

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